妈妈先生和钱
As originally appeared in耶路撒冷邮报于2019年3月15日。
真正的父亲手段爱和承诺和牺牲，并愿意共同承担责任，而不是步行从一个的孩子带走。
-William Bennett
我想用我的希望妻子结婚周年快乐，开始！如果未来19年按像第19话，我们将在伟大的形状。我写这篇文章承担妈先生的作用，为最近7天之后，作为真正的妈妈是美国帮助组织Nefesh b’Nefesh Mega Event这是这个巨大的阿利亚公平的前瞻性汀。I am living proof of the adage that ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder.’ Getting the kids up for school, making lunches, cleaning, preparing dinners which included the special “hotel omelet night”- that’s for another time- homework, logistics were all tasks that I had no problem handling. It was the WhatsApp that I received two days before my son’s 4th-grade party where the absence thing started to kick in.
你看，他不得不在橄榄罐头，一些板块和一些奶酪带来的，而我的妻子竟然准备好了才离开。在WhatsApp的虽然是一个巨大的惊喜。他还需要引进切水果的拼盘，35点的孩子！让人惊讶。我有两个选择。无论是去当地的水果的人，花想300nis上一个奇特的水果拼盘或花想40nis和做我自己。知道我要练什么我传，我前往超市买水果，醒了真正的早期和清洗，切草莓，苹果去皮，分离更橘子比我所能想象。最后，我看着盘那么好，我在这里宣布，我辞掉我的工作作为财务顾问，并进入水果拼盘饮食！开玩笑。
Joint exercise
What does any of this have to do with your money other than the fact that you can save a ton of money cutting your own fruit? I think it’s all about teamwork. In order to have a successful marriage, you need to be partners. Sometimes that means working hard either to help raise children, clean a toilet, or take down the garbage. Sometimes it takes one spouse being away to really appreciate all they do to help the family.
虽然有时似乎更容易一个人to “be in charge” of the money, it may not be so great for the relationship. Recently TD Bank did a Love and Money survey. Amazingly, it showed that 90 percent of respondents who say they are in happy relationships discuss money at least once a month. On the other hand, just 68 percent of unhappy couples talk about money this often.
It’s not her fault
在调查中使用的重要的词是“讨论”。这不是大喊大叫或生气。它不是控制。这一切都在平静地讨论你的财务目标，梦想和实际情况。从多年的经验与客户合作以及如何他们希望自己的钱投资，夫妇谈论钱的问题，并尝试一起工作，通常最终会投资自己的钱妥因他们明白，他们都希望这些钱能为他们做什么。
随着个人理财专家，Dave Ramsey wrote“婚姻是一种合作伙伴关系。现在是时候停止制造这些钱的错误，并找到共同点。当然，这是棘手弄清楚如何不打钱，但是你可以学习如何在讨论一个更高效的方式你的财务状况。
你是有原因结婚了你的配偶。信不信由你，你需要他们的技能，尤其是你不具备的。自由精神或书呆子能带来宝贵的见解和知识表。他们是你的队友，现在是时候开始把他们像一个。”
Welcome home dear and happy anniversary. Oh and sorry for the pile of laundry. That’s the one thing I didn’t get to!
The information contained in this article reflects the opinion of the author and not necessarily the opinion of Portfolio Resources Group, Inc. or its affiliates.
Aaron Katsman is author of the book Retirement GPS: How to Navigate Your Way to A Secure Financial Future with Global Investing (McGraw-Hill), and is a licensed financial professional both in the United States and Israel, and helps people who open investment accounts in the United States. Securities are offered through Portfolio Resources Group, Inc. (www.prginc.net). Member FINRA, SIPC, MSRB, FSI. For more information, call (02) 624-0995 visitwww.sisoftball.comor email aaron@lighthousecapital.co.il.
